Do not be afraid of failing. Failing comes with success and everyone has to fail sometimes in order to move on and find something better. If you are in a relationship and you feel that you are vulnerable and you are afraid of failing, chances are you will never succeed.
Succeeding means that you didn’t fail but sometimes people will not try to succeed because they are afraid of failure.
When you be afraid, you will know. This can be fear of success or fear of not being good enough or fear of failure. You might be afraid of succeeding because success is not known. Even if you have a plan and you want to be successful, you might not know what is next. You might feel good about what you are doing but be afraid of meeting your goals because then you will have to know what next step to take.
When you ask yourself, “Now what?” chances are that you are afraid of what is coming next. You will see that your goals can help you to be successful and then when you start to meet your goals, you will begin to ask yourself questions.
Setting Apart
Success can set you apart from people that you are used to being around. You might lose friends and break away from your family or co-workers. Maybe you are afraid that your relationships will change if you become successful and this will cause you to not push yourself to find your own ambitions.
Expectations
Sometimes we have expectations when we want to succeed. If you succeed everyone will see that you are able to do more than you ever expected. People will know that you are strong and able to reach your goals.
Goals
What kind of goals do you have? If you have these goals, work towards being successful even if you are afraid:
- Goal to make more money.
- Goal to meet more people.
- Goal to make more friends.
- Goal to become education.
- Goal to find a better job.
- Goal to be in a steady relationship.
- Goal to reach the top in your company.
- Goal to have children.
- Goal to control your thoughts and emotions.
- Goal to own your own business.
Conclusion
Each and every goal that you have is important. Do not give up on your goals because you are afraid or because you are afraid of what life will bring you. With success often times comes fear but you can work through that and learn to be strong.
Be strong in yourself and allow yourself to be happy and successful.
‘Just don’t be afraid!’ Really? If only it were that simple! This reads like a motivational poster gone wrong. Fear has its place, and ignoring it can lead to reckless decisions rather than genuine success.
*chuckles* This post makes it sound like everyone is out here trying to be superheroes or something. Sometimes, just getting out of bed feels like a monumental success—let’s not set the bar too high!
While I see the value in this perspective, I disagree with the notion that fear should be dismissed outright. Fear can be a valid indicator of risks we need to consider before charging ahead blindly.
This article really resonates with me! Embracing failure is so important for growth. It’s reassuring to know that everyone struggles with fear, but pushing through it can lead to amazing success. Great read!
Honestly, this post oversimplifies the complexities of fear and success. It feels like the author just wants us to ignore our feelings instead of addressing them properly. We need more depth in discussions like these.
‘Fear of success’? What’s next? Fear of chocolate? Come on! Maybe some people just enjoy being couch potatoes and are totally fine with not reaching their goals—let them live!
The article touches on critical psychological concepts such as fear of success and failure. It’s essential to understand that these fears can manifest in various ways and impact our decisions significantly. Setting realistic goals is key.
“Be strong in yourself” sounds great, but let’s also recognize that sometimes it’s okay not to feel strong! Life isn’t all about conquering fears; sometimes it’s about accepting our vulnerabilities too.