Some people are bullied in school and there comes a time where bullying makes them feel small and horrible. There are other traumatic things people go through and these things make memories about the places that the bad things happened and the feelings that they had such as being lost and vulnerable and scared.
These feelings can lead to things such as OCD and other emotional disorders but as time goes by, chances are you will see that you can change how you feel, and your life experiences become a learning thing. Here are some steps to help you move forward in your life.
When you start in life, you need to understand that life is not easy. When you are in your journey, you can have bad things happen to you and you might have emotional problems that follow. When you begin to want your life to be better, you can do things such as get therapy or find better social skills.
You can be influenced by people, books, websites and more and it can show you that even though life is hard, you can be happy.
When things do not go your way, you might feel that things are wrong with you and when your goals take longer than you expect them to, it can cause you to feel bad about yourself and people that are successful.
You have to understand that your desires are not what control you. Reaching your goals does not make you have a perfect life and reaching your goals only brings new goals and desires.
Self-help books can help you, but it is important that you learn to think for yourself. You have to understand reality and understand that you become better in life as you continue to overcome challenges.
At the beginning, you start your life and you have to know that no matter what goals you have in life, life is just life and it is not good nor bad.
Step two is that people have problems and they want to be better than they are today. When you grow up, chances are you will envy different people in your life. Maybe your friend has more friends than you and maybe you have a hard time making friends.
Being isolated is hard and you realize that you want to be something else, but you might choose to live in misery.
The best thing and what step 2 are about is learning that you need to be who you are and that is a good thing. Just because you are different than other people do not mean that you have failed or you are worthless, it just means you are you.
Everyone has things they are not good about and everyone makes mistakes. You have to keep working to make your dreams come true and to be a better person and you can do this by having more self-worth.
The third step is the solution to having a happy life. You need to take time and action and go after your dreams. When you put in time and effort, you get what you are working towards.
You can achieve your goals, get help and meet new people. This can help you to have better social skills and then you can reach the expectations you set for yourself. Keep wanting more and reaching further.
Life is like a never-ending hill; you will have desires and reach them and then you will want to have more. You have to learn to accept that life is full of changes and life is what it is.
Accepting who you are and what you have done can make you thankful for what you have. It gives you time to be thankful for what you already have and to reach for more things that you want.
Accept your relationships and accept that things do not always last forever. Accept your shortcomings and things that are part of your personality.
Accept that you have goals and pursue after them but if you do not reach them, make new goals. Accept your spiritual path and learn that you have to work hard and learn to accept that life is not perfect. Keep chasing your goals and your dreams. Find that your goals and your happiness are two different things and be happy for being able to accept your life the way that it is.
Everyone has different experiences and you must reach out to what makes you feel good about who you are and to accept that life is what it is.